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Post by brandonina on Apr 15, 2015 23:43:21 GMT
Guys~ Please answer the question on my post! For me , I think a person can still feel lonely around others when his thoughts and ideas shaped by his background go against theirs. In a conservative society, homosexuality may not be accepted by people and if one is homosexual, he can feel lonely since he might think that others don't truly accept and understand him.
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Post by lins on Apr 18, 2015 6:42:31 GMT
I agree with Brandon that people can feel lonely with other people. For instance, many couples around me talked to me about feeling lonely even though they have girl friend or boy friend. Their major reasons were lack of communication, display of affection and misunderstandings. I think the most important cause of loneliness is lack of communication. Even though you are surrounded by many people, you may feel lonely when you are reluctant to approach to someone or when others don't really communicate with you. In this case, you are likely to feel lonely. Even if you are physically with other people, you don't feel like it, and feel aloof.
Another reason can be, as Brandon said, lack of understanding between people. Since you lived in different places with different people, you tend to have distinguished characteristics of beliefs. However, when those ideas are different from others, you may feel lonely, especially when there is no one that supports your idea. In this case, you have to fight alone for your ideas.
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Post by edward95312 on Apr 19, 2015 5:07:27 GMT
yes i think loneliness is something that chase us always. We can not get away from that. When something is not going very well, we will feel lonely directly. loneliness is scary thing. It will make other people lonely too.
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Post by James on Apr 19, 2015 8:02:51 GMT
Even if a person is always surounded by many people, if the person does not share a single common thing with others, the person can feel lonely. Also, if you're just stuck in a situation where you must stay, you'll feel the need to go back to your own place and not want to be there. I guess uou can be lonely around others
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Post by danielkim on Apr 19, 2015 10:01:44 GMT
I think people can be lonely when they are reluctant to interact with others, talk less, and unable to respond well to communication. I would have to say speaking is the most important factor that determines whether people are lonely or not. If others come to understand and respect different ideas, I think there wouldn’t be a serious problem.
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Post by dhiya on Apr 19, 2015 10:08:13 GMT
True, when someone feels like they can't connect with other people, they can feel lonely, even though they are surrounded by so many people. It's about connection, sense of belonging to other people, when you don't have that, you can feel lonely.
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Post by jimim on Apr 19, 2015 11:02:46 GMT
Person can be lonely even though one is with others. If there is no one that that fits to a person, person will keep feel lonely. So I think it is possible for person to be lonely despite one is with others.
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Post by jmoon234 on Apr 19, 2015 12:06:05 GMT
If people cannot find anything similar or anything that they can relate to others, then I think that it will be difficult for people to be with others. People can talk about something only with they have something to talk about. A topic that would bring the people's attention to them, something that other people would agree about. These kind of things can be sources of people's interest and something that will bring attention to others.
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Post by justink on Apr 19, 2015 12:31:27 GMT
I think that the quality of social contact plays an important role in making one feel engaged in the society. A simple conversation or a greeting isn't really enough when there is no feeling or meaning into those social contact. The people on the receiving end could feel the indifference and perhaps feel as horrible as being alone. Also i think that people still feel alone because of a lack of conversation. Sometimes in a group of friends, if you are the quiet one, then you are less likely to be engaged in a conversation while your friends are happily chatting away.
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Post by bachle on Apr 19, 2015 13:01:13 GMT
I think that everyone would feel loneliness in around other people if they don't understand and have sympathy to each other. For example, you can't be close friend and hang out with everyone, because maybe you and them don't share the same idea or taste of humor. Thus, if you hang out in such case, I think you will be bored and lonely.
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Post by sergeyfen on Apr 19, 2015 13:33:04 GMT
I agree with you, being lonely does not mean having no people around but it's more about the common interests or something to share. It's very common for a person to feel lonely around group of people who he or she share nothing in common or just don't want to be around. For example: I doubt that a person who does not take any interests in math would feel comfortable or entertain with bunch of mathematicians.
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Post by chrishong on Apr 19, 2015 14:32:17 GMT
The person can feel lonely if that person has quite and timid personality. When people who are sociable try to approach him to build friendship with him, he can avoid them or say something rude that will shoo them away. This may lead to that person being lonely.
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Post by jason on Apr 19, 2015 14:32:30 GMT
person can be lonely around others because they don't feel any consensus with them or they just don't feel comfortable around them
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Post by elisalee on Apr 19, 2015 14:36:02 GMT
I also think that a person can still feel lonely even though they are always surrounded by people. This might be because you sometimes feel like all the people are just full of fake sides. You might have people around you who you think that you are not really close to them.
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Post by jason on Apr 19, 2015 14:37:48 GMT
Also, people can be lonely around others if you are with people you feel uncomfortable with.
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